April 15, 2008...8:36 am
To Hat or not to Hat?
That is the question that has been causing a certain amount of debate in wedding circles as the date of our wedding in June hoves ever nearer. To wear or not to wear? And, if to wear, how to find a hat that suits? In an effort to be helpful, but probably to complicate the buying process still further, I’ve dug out my copy of Dressing Smartly, by Mildred Graves Ryan, a sage tome of sartorial wisdom published in 1956, when a lady wasn’t considered properly dressed without a hat and gloves. Ms. Ryan appears very keen on hats herself: the photo of her on the book’s jacket show her sporting a trim number, and she devotes a whole chapter to Becoming Hats:

Not only does a hat put the finishing touch to a smart outfit, but it also serves as a lovely frame for the face, adding a flattering touch to the facial features. However, it is sometimes difficult to find the hat that seems exactly right for the outfit and becoming to you. But don’t buy one unless it is. With the great variety in style, size and shape there has to be one that is perfect. Keep trying. If the choice gets confusing, stop. Wait until you can analyze the situation objectively. Sometimes it is the way that you place the hat on your head that is unattractive. Shift the position until it is comfortable and flattering to wear.
Here are Ms. Ryan’s cardinal rules for hat selection, based upon principles of proportion:
“The problem of selecting a hat is also complicated by the fact that it must be considered in relation to the figure as well as the face. A hat is often most becoming to the face but gives a very distorted illusion to the figure. You know what happends when a large hat is worn by a tiny person.
It is also well to consider the profile when selecting a hat. It is important that the side view should be pleasing.
To add length to the face and figure, wear hats with brims that turn upward. Feathers or decoration with an upswept air will keep the eye moving in a vertical direction. Hats worn with a slight diagonal tilt will have a slenderizing and flattering effect.

To shorten the face and figure, wear hats with drooping brims. Sometimes hats in bright contrasting colours or with horizontally placed decoration will stop the eye, decreasing the apparent height of the figure.
Hats worn straight on the head are often difficult to wear. They produce a straight line across the forehead which shortens and broadens the face.
Care must be taken in choosing a close-fitting hat. If the crown is smaller that the widest part of the face the features will seem more prominent. If the crown is too large, a top-heavy, grotesque look is achieved. It is very important that good proportion exists between the hat, the face and the figure.
It is also important that the rules of repetition and contrast be remembered. An off-the-face hat above a tired sagging face will of course emphasize the drooping lines. A feather jutting out above a prominent nose will accentuate the feature. A pill box hat worn by a round face will increase the apparent rotundity of the face.”
What a lot to think about- no wonder the humble hat has fallen out of favour…
2 Comments
April 15, 2008 at 1:43 pm
Absolutely priceless, where do you get these gems, do you have an extensive etiquette library at home? I love this big typeface or font or whatever it is called, I barely need my old lady glasses…does she have a chapter on glasses for the tired sagging face or is it just the tired sagging face and the hat that is the problem?
The rules were so absurd but there may be method to their madness, maybe like too much choice for children we become confused and irritable when there are no clear rules.
Wonder what kind of hat she would have had the lady wear who owned the 1950’s kid leather jacket I found whilst charity shopping the other day…its turquoise with subdued violet swirls.. I am thinking a black pillbox as the jacket is a swing coat with black leather lapels…..but then again maybe a wide brimmed black silk and grosgrain number. Really depends on whether she wore it with a pencil skirt or a full circle or a dirndl. You’ve really got me going now. [by the way you can see the jacket on my last blog entry]
Found a costume designer on flickr today, stunning photos and was thinking of you when I saw her muslin mockups…see even know the right term…what are you doing to me? Whatever it is keep it up, its fun!
April 17, 2008 at 6:36 pm
To hat or not to hat? ALWAYS hat, especially for a wedding. Most women I deal with love the opportunity to wear a wedding hat and look their very best.
Good post!
Aaron
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